Most of us experience some form of trauma during our lifetime and deal with it as we would other significant life events. Whether we react habitually or respond consciously can greatly affect our quality of life in the medium and longer term.
Trauma usually follows an event that is life threatening or likely to cause injury, that produces feeling of terror, horror, or helplessness. More broadly it can also include threats or childhood abuse or neglect.
Potential results of trauma
Trauma can result in alienation from others and from ourselves, expectations of further maltreatment, and other lasting breaches in the normal connections and relationships between people. This does not mean that if you are having these experiences that you are weak. These are normal responses to abnormal or extreme events and and they can challenge our feeling of safety.
Immediately following the ‘fight flight or freeze’ responses to a traumatic event, you are likely to require support and reassurance that you are safe. We most often find this in the arms of loved ones or we may seek reassurance and support from an appropriate professional
Signs and Symptoms of Trauma
Emotional pain associated with traumatic events is normal, though it may feel overwhelming. If we do not deal adequately with our distress, then longer term suffering can result. The ongoing avoidance of emotional pain may manifest as distracting behaviors, use of alcohol or drugs to numb pain, dissociation or denial.
Other signs that trauma may be prolonged or unresolved :
Changes in mood: depression, anger, anxiety
Changes in thinking: flashbacks, memory loss, confusion
Changes in behavior: avoidance of triggers, disruption of routines, poor sleep
If these changes continue unabated, they can become complex and dysfunctional. Some people develop Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, or are mistakenly diagnosed with another psychiatric disorder.
Getting help when required can make a big difference and prevent the development of more complex ingrained symptoms such as feeling constantly angry, teary or chronically frightened.
People generally utilize the best possible coping strategies available to them at the time, and sometimes avoiding pain is the best choice available. In therapy, the aim is to bring awareness to our own psychological suffering and to support the choice of healthier alternatives for the resolution of painful experiences.
A safe environment in the context of the therapeutic relationship where we can explore and resolve unfinished trauma is essential to this process.
We can learn to sustain moment-by-moment focused awareness of (and openness to) our internal experience and immediate environment without judgement and with acceptance. This approach can enable us to sit with our pain whilst also connecting with our strengths adaptive capacities and hopefulness for the future. Improving
the regulation of our emotions in turn supports decreases in denial or other avoidance behaviors.
Therapy can be useful when we are feeling stuck during the process of a traumatic event. Often early intervention can prevent the development of more complex symptoms.
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